What it means to be a proper teenager (and not just having an age that ends in "teen").

Hitting thirteen years old must have been something wonderful for many. That was the first time we wouldn't be referred to as a "child" or a "tween." We would finally claim the title and join the group of teenagers. While finally being in the age group that ends in "teen," and having all that new height and looks, is that what really makes you truly a teen?

Apparently, many people I've come across think that, but SORRY, I'm about to burst your sad bubble. Your age isn't only what labels you as a teen, it is how you present yourself. Yes, you can be sixteen years old, but how is anyone going to take you seriously and as a young adult if all you do is cause trouble and pick on small kids at least half your age for personal amusement and to strengthen your ego? Sorry Dude, *cough,* that's cowardness, and BULLYING (which is against the law), not being the big respected teenager you think you are.

Driving fear into people and acting like little kids tints your "big" reputation. For a teenager, you are supposed to act as a role model for those looking up to you and build up a resume as an adult. Many people need to understand this. What good will deriving joy from picking on people do for you? Or always acting big and tough, thinking you are above every person on this earth, belittling everyone else? That doesn't make you a teen, but an egotistical jerk that no one wants anything to do with. That is NOT what a person growing up should want.

Teenagers need to act with respect for others, and for themselves especially. You would not want people to avoid you and have others spread your name in a negative way; though, keep up that act and that is what will happen. Teenagers have responsibilities they need to uphold, not run around chasing money, popularity, girls or guys. People also need to understand that the brand of clothing or shoes you wear or your new $6,000 hairdo doesn't give you an automatic place in society, and that is what I figure contributes to the misguided mindset that having material things make you a better person. Yes, there is nothing wrong with having nice things, but it becomes a problem when you use that to hurt others. In fact, you can even save that money to benefit your future or to help a person in need (Honestly, I do not understand the point in buying $300 shoes that you are going to grow out of, though, that's just me).

All of these things come with the description of being a teenager, and many people need to understand this. People today go way too far with this false mindset, to the point that they bully and assault people. Bullying is against the law, and putting your hands on others is DEFINITELY going to become a problem once you hit eighteen. We all need to be aware of that fact. If you see someone who needs waking up, make sure you give it to them straight. We can all contribute! Also, if you are that one on the other side receiving the hurt, talk to someone, someone who you trust and KNOW will do something. No one can help if you do not speak out. Now, to sum up for those who skipped to the end, a proper teenager is someone who is respectful to others and of themselves. They are considerate and analytical and listen to those around them. This isn't nonsense talk and lies, these words will help you in the future. I promise that.

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